In this final installment of “what makes a good parent”, we’ll discuss how to maintain leadership, with your kids, when you don’t have all the answers.

What we have accomplished so far is moved you from not knowing that you didn’t know something to realizing that you didn’t know something. As we discussed in “what makes a good parent 1″, this is the way to remove conflicts and solve problems. So now we are in a position to solve the “how to be a good parent issue”, in regards to leadership.

By exposing to your kids, your humanness, or imperfections, they may take this opportunity to get their way. After all they haven’t seen you admit mistakes before. So at this point you can disarm your kids by saying that Continue reading What Makes a Good Parent: Part 3

Continuing on with what makes a good parent, let’s take a look at when you don’t have the answer for your child.

As mentioned in “what makes a good parent 1″, remember, you don’t have to be perfect. With that point in mind, think of life in terms that life is not about getting to the finish line. It is about the path that you take to get to the finish line. In other words, think of the finish line as being 6 ft. under and the path as all the joy and excitement you experience in life. You won’t be in such a rush then to get to the finish line.

In the case that you don’t have the answer with your kids…where’s the win, how do help your kids? Continue reading What Makes a Good Parent: Part 2

In looking at what makes a good parent there are some key points. The first of which is that you don’t have to be perfect, the smartest, or always right. What you do have to do to be a good parent is be a leader in your own home.

What makes a good parent, and by proxy a good leader, is to take a stance for your kids. Be a place that they can draw from for stability, safety and love. That being said, a crucial part of what makes a good parent is letting them know you are human. What this means is you will make mistakes with them and in your own life. It is important that you know that and that they know that. Furthermore, it is important that they know you know that.

What is important about the last statement? Continue reading What Makes a Good Parent